Has anyone had to cut off a friend? ( I need help)

SkittleOnChrome · 11-03-2003, 09:59 PM

I think I'm on the verge of it, but I don't know how to go about it. It's somethin that I don't want to do, but I can't see it any other way. I've had a lot of trust issues with him in the past, but now I found out that he had sex w/one of our friends girlfriends who's in our group. Is it wrong for me to cut him off because of that? I don't feel like I should have to watch my back everytime I bring a girl around.

11-03-2003, 10:13 PM

realy only you can say, can you trust this person to not touch your girl? Maby maby not i dunno all the details but i doubt id cut him off as a freind.

Revolver · 11-03-2003, 10:28 PM

It does take 2 to tango. I never understood guys only blaming the other guy. If my GF cheated on me, I would be pissed at her. I have had the chance to easily cheat on her when I have been out of town on business trips. I have the power to say no to a girl coming on to me and asking me to go back to her room

SkittleOnChrome · 11-03-2003, 10:31 PM

I blamed both of them, but mainly him cause he's my friend..i don't deal with her, however..i've had to look at him smiling and **** in my face, although he did something of that caliber.

Sef · 11-03-2003, 10:37 PM

if one of my buddys banged my gf, i probably wouldnt care about him, he was just getting his noodle wet, as long as he told me about it within reasonable time,

id be pissed at the girl, shes the one that cheated

11-03-2003, 10:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Sef

if one of my buddys banged my gf, i probably wouldnt care about him, he was just getting his noodle wet, as long as he told me about it within reasonable time,

id be pissed at the girl, shes the one that cheated

Yeah BUT if he knowly banged your gf then he is just as much at fault as her

Nice to see you here sef

RiceRocket · 11-03-2003, 11:20 PM

I thought you wanted to kill him...

Sef · 11-03-2003, 11:26 PM

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Originally Posted by bobs94sc1

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Originally Posted by Sef

if one of my buddys banged my gf, i probably wouldnt care about him, he was just getting his noodle wet, as long as he told me about it within reasonable time,

id be pissed at the girl, shes the one that cheated

Yeah BUT if he knowly banged your gf then he is just as much at fault as her

Nice to see you here sef

not really, id probably knowingly bang one of thier gf's too, id just let them know shes a slut, id expect him to do the same

CelticShadow · 11-04-2003, 12:33 AM

Skittle.......i agree, blame both of them. Both of them are at fault 50/50

Criosdaidhlaoch · 11-04-2003, 01:26 AM

Yea I don't see any reason he wouldn't do it to you if he did it to one of you guys friends. I never understood why a guy would let a piece of ass come between him and a friend. That girl was probably bad for your friend anyway, a girl that loose is well, too loose.

Have you talked to the friend that got cheated on about it?

My approach to cheating is like this:

If a girl ever cheated on me and the guy didn't know she was taken, then it'd be all on her.

If the guy knew she was taken, I'd beat his ass not over the girl specifically, but just to let him or anyone else know not to **** with me like that.

I don't think I could have anything to do with that guy. He can't be much of a friend to anyone if thats how he is.